Monday, March 14, 2011

Steps to lead Hur A'yn: Obediance to the Husband

Allah it has ordained marriage between people for certain important reasons and benefits for both individuals and community. Among them:

1- Obeying Allah , Allah it says, (marry women of your choice)
2- Preserving human race in order to inhabit the earth and worship Allah lit .
3- Guarding one's chastity, lowering one's gaze and satisfying one's desire lawfully.
4- Preserving one's roots.
5- Spiritual repose.
6- Increasing the Ummah of Muhammad
7- Protecting society from moral and sexual diseases.

Obedience to the Husband

Islam has given woman rights and imposed on her some obligations. One of the most significant rights is that of her husband over her.

The husband is your Paradise or your Hellfire; that is, if you obey him you will enter Paradise,
and if you disobey him you will enter Hellfire.

The following are Ahaadith which order a woman to obey her husband:

The Prophet said: "When a woman observes her five obligatory prayers, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her chastity and obeys her husband, she may enter by any gate of Paradise she wishes." [Reported by Ibn Hibban, al-Bazzaar, Imam Ahmad Ibn Hanbal at-Tabarani and al-Baani]

The Prophet said: "If a woman dies while her husband was pleased with her, she will enter Paradise." [Reported by at-Tirmidhi]

The Prophet said: "If a husband calls his wife to his bed (to have sexual relations) and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the Angels will curse her till morning."

The Prophet said: "If I were to order anyone to prostrate himself before another, I should order a woman to prostrate herself before her husband." [Reported by at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Hibban]

When the Prophet was asked which woman was best he replied, "The one who pleases (her husband) when he looks at her, obeys him when he gives a command, and does not go against his wishes regarding her person or property by doing anything of which he disapproves." [Reported by at-Tirmidhi, an-Nasa'i, and al-Bayhaqi]

Therefore, wives who have had a problem in their marriage should be reconciled to their husbands and open a new chapter of a happy relationship.

p/s: Life is a learning process. I'm struggling to be good. Hasil tadahan ilmu daripada para senior tentang hal-hal rumah tangga. Terima kasih memberi tunjuk ajar.

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