Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Freedom



Maher Zain new song called freedom was inspired from our brothers and sisters which fight for freedom in Tunisia, Egypt, Libya and all other countries.

Maher Zain Live in Concert
Malawati Stadium, Shah Alam
25th February 2011

Maher Zain - Freedom ( Official Lyric )

Gathered here with my family
...My neighbours and my friends
Standing firm together against oppression holding hands
It doesn't matter where you're from
Or if you're young, old, women or man
We're here for the same reason; we want to take back our land

Oh God thank you
For giving us the strength to hold on
And now we're here together

Calling you for freedom, freedom
We know you can hear our call ooh
We're calling for freedom, fighting for freedom
We know you won’t let us fall oh
We know you're here with us

No more being prisoners in our homes
No more being afraid to talk
Our dream is just to be free, just to be free
Now when we've taking our first step
Towards a life of complete freedom
We can see our dream getting closer and closer, we're almost there

Oh God thank you
For giving us the strength to hold on
And now we're here together

Calling you for freedom, freedom
We know you can hear our call ooh
We're calling for freedom, fighting for freedom
We know you won’t let us fall oh
We know you're here with us

I can feel the pride in the air
And it makes me strong to see everyone
Standing together holding hands in unity
Shouting out load demanding their right for freedom
This is it and we're not backing of
Oh God we know you hear our call

And we're calling you for freedom, freedom
We know you can hear our call ooh
We're calling for freedom, calling for freedom
We know you won’t let us fall oh
We know you're here with us

Monday, March 28, 2011

Agar Cinta Bersemi Indah 1

wan & opah to be..Insha Allah ^^

Mengukir cinta di belahan jiwa

Bila yang tertulis olehNya engkau yang terpilih untukku
Telah terbuka hati ini menyambut cintamu
Di sini segalanya kan kita mula
Mengukir buaian rindu yang tersimpan dulu
`Tuk menjadi nyata dalam hidup bersama

Selamat datang di separuh nafasku
Selamat datang di pertapaan hatiku

Izinkan aku `tuk mencintaimu
Menjadi belahan di dalam jiwaku
Ya Allah jadikanlah ia pengantin sejati
Di dalam hidupku…(izinkan aku)

Wahai yang dicinta telah kurela
Hadirmu temani relung hatiku
Simpanlah jiwaku dalam do’amu
Kan kujaga cintamu
Wahai yang dicinta telah kurela
Hadirmu temani relung hatiku
Simpanlah nafasku dalam hidupmu
Kan kujaga setiamu

Apapun adanya dirimu
Ku `kan coba tuk tetap setia
Begitu pula pada diriku
Terimalah dengan apa adanya

p/s:Agar cinta kita bersemi indah hingga ke syurga ^^

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Steps to lead Hur A'yn: Adornment for the Husband


Nowadays, many wives do not adorn themselves for their husbands. However, whenever an occasion arises, they sit in front of the mirror to fix their hair, wear their best clothes and get smartened up.

But when it comes to their husbands, they seem to ignore themselves; they welcome their husbands in their cooking clothes, smelling of garlic and onions. Therefore, does a woman's role lie in adorning herself for other women at parties and ceremonies, or for her husband?

The wise wife is the one who knows how to win her husband's heart, which means that she must always be a new wife in his life. A sweet word is an ornament, an affectionate smile is a beauty, a good scent and beautiful clothes are a joy, and constant cleanliness is purity and worship, because you are the Houri (nymph) in this world and the mistress of palaces in the Gardens of Paradise, Insha Allah.

Dear wife, you should learn from the Qur'an the moral principles of the Houris and make every effort to win your husband's heart.



p/s: Perlumbaan merebut hati suami dengan bidadari syurga..Jom, hiasi dirimu khas untuk suamimu yang tercinta. Maka para bidadari akan cemburu kepadamu. Kena minta suami belikan haruman munif hijjaz!! woha!! ;)

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Steps to lead Hur A'yn: Greeting the husband when he come back home


The husband leaves his work tired and on his way back home he endures the noise and hubbub of the heavy traffic.

He heads towards his kingdom, where he can find tranquility, peace of mind, and happiness with his wife and children.

So how is the good wife going to meet her husband when he comes home?

Some wives are not at home when their husbands return from work. Whether she is still at work, at the neighbors, with her friends or at her family's, the husband will feel dissatisfied and her absence will leave a bad effect on him. Her husband would love to find her at home so that he could find comfort, peace and tranquility.

However, the wife might be at home when her husband comes back, but she does not greet him properly. She shows no concern for his arrival and leaves him alone without asking about him. Worse than that, she might even welcome him with a gloomy face, a noisy voice, various complaints and bitter resentment. This attitude might make the husband go back to his work immediately.

The following is an example of a woman Companion of the Prophet SAW and how she greeted her husband. Her name was Umm Sulaim

Her son died suddenly after a period of illness. When her husband, Abu Talhah, came back home, she did not inform him about their son's death. She first brought him some food and had sexual intercourse, and then she informed him about their son's death.

This is their story as reported by Imam Al-Bukhari in his Sahih, on the authority of Anas Ibn Malik.

Abu Talhah had a child who was sick. Once, while Abu Talhah was out, the child died. When Abu Talhah returned home, he asked, "How is the boy?" Umm Sulaim replied, "He is quieter than he has ever been." Then she brought supper for him and he took his supper and slept with her. When he had finished, she said (to him), "Bury the child (as he's dead)." Abu Talha offered the (morning) prayer with the Prophet SAW and informed him of what happened to them. Allah's Messenger said, "May Allah bless you concerning your night. (That is, may Allah bless you with good offspring)."
Sufyan said, 'One of the Ansar said,"They (i.e. Abu Talhah and his wife) had nine sons and all of them became reciters of the Qur'an (by heart).'"

How great is Umm Sulaim's wisdom!

There is no worse news in the world than to inform a father of his son's death. However, Abu Talhah received it with submission, and it was because of his wife's discretion and wise behaviour.

The first question he asked when he returned home was: "How is the boy?"

Umm Sulaim, knowing that her husband was tired and preoccupied, could not tell him that he was dead and at the same time could not lie to him. She replied: "He is quieter than he has ever
been."

What she actually meant was that their son had fallen asleep forever. Moreover, before she could inform him, she brought him dinner and slept with him. Her husband has now become ready to receive the painful news





p/s: Kalau kita mungkin akan teriak: Abannnngggg~~ anak kita dah takde!!
Masya Allah hebatnya sahibah Nabi SAW ni.

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Merayakan fitrah: Sakinah\ Mawaddah \Rahmah


"Sesungguhnya Allah telah menggantikan pola hidup kerahiban kita dengan agama yang lurus dan mudah"[Riwayat Baihaqi]

"Siapa saja yang mampu untuk menikah, namun ia tidak menikah, maka tidaklah ia termasuk golonganku"[Riwayat at-Tabrani]

Perkahwinan adalah fitrah. Islam melarang seorang muslim untuk menahan diri dari perkahwinan dan hidup secara zuhud dengan niat melakukan pola kerahiban, menyepi hanya untuk beribadah dan mendekatkan diri kepada Allah. Lebih-lebih lagi apabila seseorang muslim itu mampu melakukannya tanpa kesulitan apa pun.

"(Tetaplah atas) fitrah Allah yang menciptakan manusia menurut fitrah itu. Tidak ada perubahan pada fitrah Allah. (Itulah) agama yang lurus, tetapi kebnayakan manusia tidak mengetahui"[Ar-Rum:30]

Perkahwinan itu adalah fitrah. Agar seseorang muslim dapat memikul amanat tanggung jawab yang paling besar di dalam dirinya atas orang yang berhak mendapatkan pendidikan dan pemeliharaan, pada saat ia menyambut panggilan fitrah, menerima tuntutan-tuntutan naluri dan menjalankan sunnah kehidupan ini.

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Perkahwinan menumbuhkan semangat cinta dan kasih sayang dan kebersamaan dimana ia merupakan medan untuk mendapatkan ketenangan jiwa dan kebahagiaan. Allah megilustrasikan fenomena ini dengan ungkapan yang paling indah:

"Hai sekelian manusia, bertakwalah kepada Tuhanmu yang telah menciptakan kamu dari seorang diri, dan daripadanya Allah menciptakan isterinya, dan daripadanya Allah memperkembang biakkan lelaki dan wanita yang banyak"[An-Nisa':1]

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Semoga, perkahwinan yang bakal dibina menjadi batu loncatan untuk saya meningkatkan rasa keimanan kepada Allah disamping merasai ketenangan hidup yang hakiki

Saya amat memohon doa dari sahabat-sahabat, ahli keluarga, agar mendoakan kesejahteraan kehidupan kami. Dengan hajat agar rumah tangga ini penuh barakah dan mampu mencapai misi dan visi sebagai hamba Allah dan khalifah di muka bumi ini. Tiada lain yang kami harapkan melainkan agar Allah redha atas setiap apa yang kami lakukan.

Semoga perpindahan fasa dalam kehidupan kami menjadi titik tolak dalam rangka menuju ke syurga. Insha Allah. Mohon sekudus doa dari semua..Amin.


Nazri & Fazirah

19 Mac 2011 Kg. Sg. Serdang, Kapar, Klang, Selangor

3 April 2011 Kg. Bukit Changgang, Banting, Selangor

Monday, March 14, 2011

Steps to lead Hur A'yn: Obediance to the Husband


Allah it has ordained marriage between people for certain important reasons and benefits for both individuals and community. Among them:

1- Obeying Allah , Allah it says, (marry women of your choice)
2- Preserving human race in order to inhabit the earth and worship Allah lit .
3- Guarding one's chastity, lowering one's gaze and satisfying one's desire lawfully.
4- Preserving one's roots.
5- Spiritual repose.
6- Increasing the Ummah of Muhammad
7- Protecting society from moral and sexual diseases.

Obedience to the Husband

Islam has given woman rights and imposed on her some obligations. One of the most significant rights is that of her husband over her.

The husband is your Paradise or your Hellfire; that is, if you obey him you will enter Paradise,
and if you disobey him you will enter Hellfire.

The following are Ahaadith which order a woman to obey her husband:

The Prophet said: "When a woman observes her five obligatory prayers, fasts during Ramadan, preserves her chastity and obeys her husband, she may enter by any gate of Paradise she wishes." [Reported by Ibn Hibban, al-Bazzaar, Imam Ahmad Ibn Hanbal at-Tabarani and al-Baani]

The Prophet said: "If a woman dies while her husband was pleased with her, she will enter Paradise." [Reported by at-Tirmidhi]

The Prophet said: "If a husband calls his wife to his bed (to have sexual relations) and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the Angels will curse her till morning."

The Prophet said: "If I were to order anyone to prostrate himself before another, I should order a woman to prostrate herself before her husband." [Reported by at-Tirmidhi and Ibn Hibban]

When the Prophet was asked which woman was best he replied, "The one who pleases (her husband) when he looks at her, obeys him when he gives a command, and does not go against his wishes regarding her person or property by doing anything of which he disapproves." [Reported by at-Tirmidhi, an-Nasa'i, and al-Bayhaqi]

Therefore, wives who have had a problem in their marriage should be reconciled to their husbands and open a new chapter of a happy relationship.


p/s: Life is a learning process. I'm struggling to be good. Hasil tadahan ilmu daripada para senior tentang hal-hal rumah tangga. Terima kasih memberi tunjuk ajar.

Kelas Cinta 1;Cinta Allah: Jangan bersedih

Ketika laut bergemuruh, ombak menggunung, dan angin bertiup kencang. Maka para awak kapal pun dengan panik berseru,'Ya Allah!'

Ketika orang yang berjalan di tengah gurun pasir tersesat, kenderaan tak tahu lagi jalan yang benar, dan kafilah sudah keningungan menetukan arah lajunya, maka mereka menyeru,'Ya Allah!'

Ketika musibah menimpa, bencana dan tragedi melanda, maka orang-orang pun berseru, 'Ya Allah!'

Ketika pintu permohonan ditutup dan sekat-sekat permintaan telah dipasangkan, maka mereka pun berteriak, 'Ya Allah!'

Ketika semua acara telah dicoba dan ternyata tak ada celah keluar. Ketika semua jalan telah menjadi sedemikian sempit, semua yang dicita-citakan buntu, dan semua jalan pinta telah pupus maka merekapun menyeru, 'Ya Allah!'

Allah: Asma terbagus, tulisan terindah, ungkapan paling jujur, dan kata yang paling berharga

Allah: Pemilik semua kekayaan, keabadian, kekuatan, pertolongan,kemuliaan,kemampuan dan hikmah

"....Dan Dia bersama kalian di mana pun kalian berada..."[Al-Hadid:4]

Ketika seorang mukmin memaknai cintanya kepada Allah, ia selalu dalam kebaikan. Ia memberi dua erti pada kebersamaan sucinya dengan Allah. Ia merasakan penjagaan sekaligus pengawasan Kekasihnya. Dengan penjagaan, ia mantap dan yakin. Dengan penjagaan ia merasa aman dari segala kemudharatan, kerama ia memiliki sebuah kalimah yang paling menyenangkan:'Sesuatu yang hak, takkan ke mana, sesuatu yang luput takkan menimpa!!'

"Supaya kalian jangan berduka cita terhadap apa yang luput dari kalian dan supaya kalian tidak terlalu gembira terhadap apa yang diberikanNya terhadap kalian. Dan Allah tidak suka orang yang sombong lagi membanggakan diri"[Al-Hadid:23]

Dan dengan pengawasan, ia berusaha hidup dalam kesolehan, kerana ia lebih patut malu dan takut kepada Allah, Kekasih yang selalu membersamainya.

"..Dan Kami mengetahui apa yang dibisikkan oleh hatinya. Dan kamilebih dekat kepadanya daripada urat lehenya.."[Qaaf:16]

Oleh itu, sediakan hati untuk terima Qada' dan Qadar Allah. Sediakan hati untuk redha dengan setiap penyusunanNya:
Anas B. Malik meriwayatkan:

“Sesungguhnya di antara hambaKu ada imannya tidak menjadi baik kecuali dengan kefakiran,jika Aku lapangkan rezekinya,maka imannya akan rosak.Di antara hambaKu ada imannya tidak menjadi baik kecuali apabila dia kaya,jika Aku membuatnya fakir pasti imannya rosak.Di antara hambaKu ada imannya baik kecuali apabila dia sihat.Jika Aku membuatnya sakit maka imannya pasti rosak.Dan diantara hambaKu ada imannya tidak baik kecuali apabila dia sakit.Di antara hambaKu ada yang meminta satu pintu ibadah, lalu Aku tutup pintu itu darinya agar dia tidak kerasukan ujub.Aku mengatur hamba-hambaKu dengan pengetahuanKu terhadap apa yang ada di dalam hati mereka.Sesungguhnya Aku Maha Mengetahui lagi Maha Lembut”

Allah susunkan yang terbaik untuk imanmu. Allah Maha Baik & Maha Lembut. Allah tahu apa yang terbaik untuk hambaNya. :)

p/s: Degup-degup ta'aruf,
degup-degup keje tak siap!! woha ;p

sumber: Agar bidadari cemburu padamu
page 110-113
Salim A. Fillah

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Ketika dua hati menyatu

Ketika Dua Hati Menyatu

Album :
Munsyid : Seismic



Saat dua hati berjanji
Tuk arungi hidup di jalan-Nya
Allah kan berkahi mereka
Kala dalam doa kala dalam asa

Menjadilah mentari bening pagi
Terangi bumi terangi hati
Menjadilah keheningan malam
Kala berjuta insan larut dalam doa

Selamat datang kawan
Di duniamu yang baru
Kudoakan semoga bahagia

When two people get marry
To take the life together on the way
Allah shall give them one more bless
When life in love and try
When life in love and pray

Just be the sunshine in the morning day
Give it shine to the world let everyone to see
Just be the quiteness in the night
When many people cry when many people pray

Welcome to the new world my friends
You both have to face all in love
All I could do just pray
And I do I pray